Don’t feel overwhelmed by “competition”

As freelancers, we have a tendency to think that we’re in competition with all other editors and (especially if you’re active on social media and see how many other editors there are in the world) that can feel overwhelming. But we’re actually not in competition with everyone else who calls themselves an editor. Case in…

Plant the Seeds: A Marketing Analogy

I’m here in Málaga, Spain celebrating Thanksgiving, which isn’t a holiday here. But my daughter and I are celebrating anyway because for us this has always been a day for reflecting on what we’re thankful for. And this year? We’re thankful to be basking in the Spanish sunshine. Moving here took years of planning and…

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How to Stand Out as an Editor

Newer editors are often unsure of how to stand out from other editors. So they’ll do things that are the equivalent of wearing a fedora or a monocle. “Notice me!” these efforts say. But there’s a better way to stand out. My #1 Tip to Stand Out as an Editor The very best way to…

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5 Networking Tips for Editors

Most of my work comes from referrals and word-of-mouth, and that’s true of most of the experienced freelance editors I know. I also solve a lot of problems that arise by talking them over with my colleagues. Because of that, I’m a strong advocate for having a network of colleagues. But I know networking intimidates…

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5 Tips for Having Hard Conversations

One of my secret vices is reading advice columns. They’re always about conflict, which is the heart of story, and so I can’t help but be drawn to them. Over and over again, the writers express a desire to set some kind of a boundary – to tell their parents they can’t stay for three…

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Toxic Freelance Relationships

I wrecked two Christmases in a row as a freelancer for a publisher client. I was trying to salvage disasters that someone else had caused, so there I was, working feverishly all Christmas Eve and half of Christmas Day, trying to fix it. I couldn’t enjoy the season or time with my family because of…

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How to Avoid Being a Chump

I’m a daily reader of the ChumpLady website, which is a great resource for people who are dealing with cheaters in their romantic relationships. I read it not because I’ve ever lived with or left a cheater but because it offers incredible insight into narcs and other personality disordered types, which I have had to…